I haven’t done a Maya update in awhile…life has been chaotic. More so than the usual chaotic, but that is a whole other post entirely (coming soon!) But since I have apparently chosen to use this method to record Maya’s milestones rather than traditional means, I better stick with it!
My little monkey is now 3. We decided to skip the party this year (best. idea. ever.) and take her to Disneyland and California Adventure instead. She is very into fairies, and just getting into princesses (though I loathe this idea…thank goodness her favorite is Belle, the non-princess!) – so this was the optimal choice. We made it a surprise for her and the look on her face when I pulled into the parking lot and she recognized the Disney logo was great (I do believe that this is also her first sight word…sick.) The look on her face every time a princess/female Disney character approached our breakfast table at Ariel’s Grotto was priceless. Most of our time was spent either eating or waiting in line for a
photo op character meet, and she really only wanted to go on one ride due to her fear of the dark (King Triton’s Carousel at CA Adventure.) She might have been a little overwhelmed at times, but it was clear she had such a good time.
She started Transition (to preschool) in the Fall, which is basically a 2-day a week program that gets them used to the idea that they will be spending time away from their primary caregiver who in Maya’s case was me for the first 2 years of her life. Other than the 2nd day of class freak out where I was not allowed to leave her side and she cried forever, she has done great. She loves her teacher, and has slowly warmed to playing with the other kids in class. It’s been great for her language (as if she wasn’t talking a lot before, now it is in paragraphs….fast paragraphs) and her confidence on the playground. In a few short weeks, she will begin nursery school/preschool in the same place 5 days a week as I am going back to work full-time. I’m sad that she has to be there all day a few days a week, but once she gets used to it, I know that the experience will be a positive one for her (at least that’s what I tell myself when I think about it too much…)
Maya graduated from services at the Regional Center, so we had to say goodbye to Dr. Faryl and Natalia who took over PT, after our time with Margaret was over. She loved playing with them all, and we took pictures to commemorate the relationships she built with them.
I also got to see the IEP (Individualized Education Plan…here is your intro lesson to Special Education!) process from the parent side, as opposed to the teacher or administrative designee side (both of which I have been privy to in my field of work.) I’ve realized that from all sides it is incredibly tedious, but in the best interests of the child. Maya will continue to receive services through LAUSD at her private preschool and hopefully by the time she is actually in kindergarten I will be able to exit her out of the program.
Here are Maya’s stats from her 3 year checkup:
35 inches (she grew 3 inches since last year)
29 lbs. (up 4 lbs. from last year)
BP 108/64 (I had no idea they do this for 3 year olds), and otherwise healthy…
This was the first time in three years she did not hysterically cry upon entering the office. And no tears at all until they pricked her finger for blood…such a big girl!
Current loves: TV: Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, Daniel Tiger’s Neighborhood (done by the same people who did Mr. Rogers), Little Einsteins, that Jake show with the Pirates (though I find this to be drivel so I don’t let her watch it often), still Sesame Street on occasion, Paula Deen, Guy Fieri and the Pioneer Woman on the Food Network…still everything Disney, especially Mickey, Minnie, Duffy and now the friends from Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, still Disney Fairies, Belle! She’s obsessed with Belle! Still Cooking with Mom, Grandma, or Grammie. Still reading (especially Mickey Mouse Club books…) Surprises (especially if they involve presents or food.) Chocolate. Bagel pizzas, macaroni and cheese. Chocolate milk. SINGING – this is a new development and wow is it the cutest thing ever. This goes for Mommy music and Maya music. Still Dancing. Anything by Maroon 5 (thank goodness she does not understand lyrics yet), Adele, Keane’s “The Hamburg Song” (AKA The Hamburger Song) and really music in general.
Current dislikes: Naps 🙁 Still all of the following: Hair washes, car washes, other kids invading her play space, though that is getting better.
Maya is still in pull-ups at night and it’s fine with me.
She is a funny, sweet, cautious, opinionated, observant, smart and beautiful little girl. Still so glad and proud I get to be her Mom.